tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post1578377153781656509..comments2023-11-29T00:48:01.649-08:00Comments on xoxo, the chapmans: embarrassing moments.Marcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14516635164186439520noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post-36398219015684966112009-03-18T09:34:00.000-07:002009-03-18T09:34:00.000-07:00Ugh, stuff like this happens to me all the time. W...Ugh, stuff like this happens to me all the time. We're both little and short and we have these CHEEKS :)<BR/><BR/>This weekend I was at a fancy 21+ gala, and I was all dressed up in a silky new dress, complete with great heels and vintage jewelry. I strolled in feeling like Audrey Hepburn and struck up a conversation with a friend of mine. Within minutes an older woman leaned over and said, "You don't look old enough to be here!" I smiled and said, "Oh, I am. You can check my driver's license if you want." She looked taken aback and said, "Honey, it was a compliment!" Like telling me I looked like a teenager at a charity benefit was at all appropriate or adult-like of her.<BR/><BR/>I get this all the time. It doesn't feel like a compliment. It's rude and awkward and condescending, and when it comes from certain people (older ladies especially) it can feel downright passive aggressive. But there is really no right way to respond. You can't very well say, "well, gosh, you look so much OLDER than you really are!" So you just have to smile and deal with it - and maybe buy higher heels next time ;) And know that you are among the amazing class of women who do not look like they've ever had a baby, which is admittedly super awesome.Ryan Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03283785785685639710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post-57763428346283262262009-03-15T21:52:00.000-07:002009-03-15T21:52:00.000-07:00hahaha! K, that was so fun.. but I have to say, in...hahaha! K, that was so fun.. but I have to say, in this picture Chelsea KILLS me! Check her out in all her 'peace-ness'! haha. And yes, sharing these moments with you gives me great pleasure! May many more embarrasing moments be shared between friends! :-)Tiffany Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15049473246304080261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post-22319311788472536882009-03-10T21:15:00.000-07:002009-03-10T21:15:00.000-07:00Thank you so much for this post...it is so refresh...Thank you so much for this post...it is so refreshing to know that these things happen to other people besides just me! In California I was a leader at girls camp and at a "leader meeting" a lady from another ward thought that I was a youth trying to sneak in! But I agree with 'Megs'...it will only suck for a few more years and then you'll be lovin it when your friends have wrinkles and age spots and you look fresh as a daisy!Ashley and Aaronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17691348303750165292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post-59127426208219220182009-03-10T17:35:00.000-07:002009-03-10T17:35:00.000-07:00You just crack me right up!You just crack me right up!Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16780913697620500164noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post-45604041207898964722009-03-10T08:18:00.000-07:002009-03-10T08:18:00.000-07:00sorry you were embarrassed- but thanks for the lau...sorry you were embarrassed- but thanks for the laughs! And don't worry, I was mistaken for a yw when I was in the presidency too. And one of the girls really didn't like me for a very long time- until she found out I was a leader and not a yw. Good times!<BR/><BR/>But mostly- I was remembering our good ole' ym/yw group adventures. How cool was our ward?! I LOVED it! Those are great memories to look back on!{amy k.}https://www.blogger.com/profile/08310985121880121844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post-19884508471727191582009-03-09T21:20:00.000-07:002009-03-09T21:20:00.000-07:00You are too cute! I wish I looked like I was 15! T...You are too cute! I wish I looked like I was 15! Those girls are lucky to have you with them. <BR/>Love.Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14017195465696744632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post-12030997683554166672009-03-09T19:21:00.000-07:002009-03-09T19:21:00.000-07:00I forgot to mention:Do you remember when one of Se...I forgot to mention:<BR/>Do you remember when one of Sean's baseball buddies thought I was DAD's MOM? Humiliating. But... Dad got laughs for years! and still going! <BR/> By the way... the word verification spells a really bad word in spanish! I can't believe I have to write it to post this! Love ya that much though.Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02663745104238713511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post-35676441408563723272009-03-09T17:58:00.000-07:002009-03-09T17:58:00.000-07:00I say ENJOY being mistaken for a young woman now b...I say ENJOY being mistaken for a young woman now because before you know it you'll wish you could be mistaken for one of the youth. RaeAnnThe Hurst Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06937086803732087135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post-8599568464030991732009-03-09T14:32:00.000-07:002009-03-09T14:32:00.000-07:00Don't worry, last summer at Youth Conference I was...Don't worry, last summer at Youth Conference I was mistaken for a youth by several leaders and was also hit on by a boy, but he was seventeen. Oh and my husband was there.Kade & Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03354650777639820913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post-35474383363700522232009-03-09T12:13:00.000-07:002009-03-09T12:13:00.000-07:00Oh my gosh, Marce... that is hilarious. I love it...Oh my gosh, Marce... that is hilarious. I love it.mccallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15592515590340724694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post-16118136307280490982009-03-09T11:07:00.000-07:002009-03-09T11:07:00.000-07:00Ah! hahahahaha! I l0ved hearing this story when yo...Ah! hahahahaha! I l0ved hearing this story when you called!~ It's the best! I agree. Cookie lady needs to take a course on manners! I mean really! That is ridiculous!<BR/>I should invite her into my NURSERY and sit in to the wonderful lessons on " SHARING"! Hummm! <BR/>Ok. So you do look young... but not 15! I think you should make yourself a fun sign for the next YOUTH conference that says: I may look 15.... but.... ( you fill in the blank)<BR/>I am glad you had fun. You will not forget this youth conference!<BR/>I love you! Now, go get some wrinkles! hahahahahaLindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02663745104238713511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post-82516887857628204222009-03-09T10:59:00.000-07:002009-03-09T10:59:00.000-07:00Ok, i'm sorry but I found that post hilarious. I l...Ok, i'm sorry but I found that post hilarious. I love the way you tell your stories. I'm so sorry for those ebmarassing moments. I think you are darling. You are just so tiny and short, that people probably don't take a closer look to realize you are older.Kristihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10995966347211507413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post-12391159968800296422009-03-09T09:55:00.000-07:002009-03-09T09:55:00.000-07:00I have the same problem with being told I look lik...I have the same problem with being told I look like I'm in high school. I have no solution. But my mom says it will work for me when I'm older (like 50-60) and people think I'm in my 40's. So make it work for you while you can, I guess.<BR/><BR/>PS - what is up with the cookie Nazi? I have never heard of anyone being so rude over COOKIES! Goodness.Megshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10739277949244119670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post-24316207665320520612009-03-08T23:00:00.000-07:002009-03-08T23:00:00.000-07:00I am laughing so hard. Oh that poor boy. I'm think...I am laughing so hard. <BR/><BR/>Oh that poor boy. I'm thinking he'll probably need therapy for months, no more like years because a hot mama like yourself turned him down at a stake dance.... ha ha ha. I probably shouldn't find this so funny. <BR/><BR/>For the record, I think you look at least 18 ;)Debrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09800808226110892670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6691189571793066909.post-59150019668804052472009-03-08T21:40:00.000-07:002009-03-08T21:40:00.000-07:00ha ha ha all I can say is I feel your pain. I loo...ha ha ha all I can say is I feel your pain. I look like I'm twelve : )Celeste Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04982444655291669671noreply@blogger.com